There are a few areas in the home that are important to help the emergy of love flow into your life.
Entrance – It is important to have a clean and welcoming entrance. The front door is the mouth of Chi, where you welcome opportunities.
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Relationship Area – Located in the Southwest corner of a home or space, it represents the earth element, the number 2 and the colors pink, red and white. For the year 2014, a water feature located in this sector can bring abundance and opportunity.
Center of the Home – Also called the Tai Chi, this area can be enhanced with a flowering plant, such as an orchid, a small water feature or crystals, such as amethyst and rose quartz.
The Bedroom – Central to the theme of stability and harmony, because it is our personal space, the bedroom must be a room dedicated to resting and renewing oneself. There should be no televisions, computers, workout equipment or desk. The bedroom should be the most restful, or Yin area, of the home. Lighting should be dimmable and soft, not harsh.
Here are a few practical tips to consider in order to keep, attract and enjoy your significant other.
– To have a solid headboard, is to have great support of energy. The best kind is an upholstered headboard because of its strength and softness. See my previous blog on bed placement.
– Have some room in your drawers and closet for your partner’s belongings.
– The side of the bed should not be against the wall. No space on the side, means no room for a partner.
– Place items in red or pink on the Southwest area of the bedroom. Also items that represent couples, such as a sculpture, 2 hearts, a picture.
– Have balance on both sides of the bed. The table or nightstands must be comparable, they do not have to be identical, but reflect who each
other is.
I visited a client who was having trouble in their relationship. Their bedroom was a very clear clue of that fact. To begin with their nightstands where far off in size and practicality. There where pictures of the family all over the place. Ironically, this being a blended marriage, one partner wanted to dominate the other because of the children and that was always the source of their conflict.
My suggestion was to even out one of the nightstands, add a lamp and remove the family pictures in their bedroom. I also placed crystals to aid communication and love.
Family pictures belong in the family area of the home. Pictures of the couple in happy occasions are the only ones to display in the bedroom.
Personalized Feng Shui gives your best directions for love and romance based on your date of birth. When you sleep with your head pointed in your relationship direction or seat facing in that direction, on a date for example, you are attracting that energy. The amazing thing about this method, called 8 Mountains and Kua numbers, is that it is a free gift of this wonderful Universe available to all of us. See my previous blog on Bed Placement II.
Engage your emotions, whether it is through visualization, music or scent. Emotions are a way our soul communicates, as this quote by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn, The First Circle describes;
“We are all human, and our senses are quicker to prompt us than our reason. Every man gives off a scent, and that scent tells you how to act before your head does.”
Lastly, the advice I share with those that are looking for a partner is to “know what you want.” Get serious about making a list of the qualities you are looking for in a partner. You may be as specific as listing height, color hair or occupation. A list sends a message to the Universe so you may have the best match possible. Without a list, you may just get an unpleasant surprise, get discouraged and give up.
Remember that one of the treasures in life is to have great relationships. May you be blessed with them.